All Men?

We talked about how sometimes all of us dont always tell the truth like it really is. we dont all really tell the exact truth about who we are or what happened to us or how we feel. He says we ALL over-exaggerate the truth, especially as men they have a tendency to do this. he told me once how men, even with video proof they would bold face lie and say it wasnt them.

That was a result of a conversation we started on why men say the things they say to other women outside of their relationship. maybe they just disconnect and say "oh yea, i wanna be with you too" or "you know i love you, i'll call you tomorrow" and they arent even aware of what they're saying. He says no...its just to say it. no truth in it. we all do it.

I raise my eyebrow on this one.

So I say this too...the other thing i thought of when he said that was, thats why i write this. to say the things that are truth as they happen to me with no embellishment. none. sometimes you know, i dont think i felt like i should say anything. afraid of judgment and such. i know i am not the only one though. not at all. but it all needs to be said. I mean, can you imagine your life saying all the things you REALLY think inside. I'm not imagining anymore, I'm just speaking the truth and seeing what happens.

I mean, I've had this "8 qualities of wealthy women" posted up in front of me for a year now and i am no more wealthy than i was two years ago. So why is this??? because i havent even gotten past no #1: THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR DESTINY....until almost two months ago. it finally hit me. And so if i continue to dump my thoughts, as is, all truth...then i can create new thoughts that have action. I've touched on this before...anywho, two posts in one tonight.

The late night thinker....