The Hubby

A moment in our relationship happened the other day that we were discussing in a very positive way. And from that discussion came these words,

                             "...I don't want the old you..."

And it brought a tear to my eye.

Ok, maybe it was more than a few (for those who know the passionate side of me) But I did something the other day that I felt like reminded him of when we first got together...what I've been referring to as the old me in other discussions we've had. And it has been a discussion off and on for sometime since we got married because there had been a definite and clear change in who I was in the relationship when we married. And its not some MAJOR change, like I instantly became some recluse or worse, some old nag....haha. Its just that we had a lot of trust to rebuild and we had to apply alot more of Faith "from this day forward." And I think I felt that he needed me to be that person again.


He said he accepted the change because he knew the circumstances that led to it and his role in it. But that made it like he owed me for the rest of the marriage for the scandal before the marriage. But I have to say that it was one of the nicest things he had said to me and one of the most liberating moments for us both. The love is a little deeper, you know...when you just...................smile......

another small step for married-kind.